A few years before World War II, a 13-year-old girl in China wrote a prayer for her future husband.
The girl was Ruth Bell, the daughter of Presbyterian missionaries, and her five children have often shared that poem with others. So that's what Virginia "Gigi" Graham did, once again, at the March 2 funeral of the man her mother married in 1943 -- the Rev. Billy Graham.
"Dear God, I pray all unafraid/ as we're inclined to do.
"I do not want a handsome man/ But, oh God, let him be like you.
"I do not need one big and strong/ nor yet so very tall.
"Nor need he be a genius/ or wealthy, Lord, at all.
"But let his head be high, dear God/ and let his eye be clear,
"His shoulders straight, whate'er his fate/ whate'er his earthly sphere.
"And, oh God, let his face have character/ and a ruggedness of soul,
"And let his whole life show, dear God/ a singleness of goal.
"And when he comes/ as he will come,
"With those quiet eyes aglow/ I'll understand that he's the man,
"I prayed for long ago."
One by one, Billy and Ruth Graham's children -- Gigi, Anne, Ruth, Franklin and Ned -- took the pulpit in a 28,000-square-foot tent erected at the Billy Graham Library, in Charlotte, N.C. They praised their famous father, of course, but also their mother who died in 2007. The family's patriarch died with 19 grandchildren, 44 great-grandchildren and six great-great-grandchildren.